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Today is Israel’s Memorial Day (Yom Hazikaron), and tonight we begin celebrating Independence Day (Yom Ha’Atzmaut). While I know it would be more appropriate to post on that topic, I’ve already seen a bunch of great posts by others so instead, I’ll post some mildly useful advice on how to avoid seeing your Facebook news feed fill up with so many posts about stupid games.

Please accept my apologies if you play one of those Farmville, Mafia or other FB games, but for those of us who don’t, seeing your updates several times a day can get annoying. This advice was posted by one of my FB friends:

anyone sick of seeing game updates in their news feed….scroll your mouse over to the right of one of those postings and the word “hide” will appear, click it and then click the name of the game (i.e. Mafia Wars) on the list and they will be hidden from you from now on ;)

There, now isn’t that better than hiding all posts from a friend who overdid their quota of boring news, which used to be the only way to skip seeing that crap.

Just another Facebook post

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A blogger friend was ruminating on the meaning of Facebook in a recent post. She focused mainly on issues of etiquette in Facebooking and how that very term is a “new word”.

I really hadn’t give much thought to netiquette when it came to Facebook because, for the most part, my friends are people I have known IRL (in real life). In other words, they met me under the terms of current, face-to-face, behavioral norms, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that we will continue to communicate clearly once things move online.

I have long been interested in online society and intentional communities and how cyber relationships will impact on our friendships in the future. Hey Evelyn, remember usenet! From my perspective, Facebook is a tool to maintain more, but perhaps less intense, friendships with people whom we may only rarely update directly.

For me, Facebook has helped me maintain relationships with people whom I may not have time to communicate with directly via long emails and personalized contact via phone, or (gasp!), face-to-face meet-ups. Instead, I can maintain friendships with only a minimal amount of effort – such as updating my status and occasionally posting photos. I enjoy reading how they are doing, and am usually interested in my friends’ status updates (except maybe the sports updates-no offense my sports fan friends).

The Internet – a view from 1969

The future of the Internet, circa 1969. Interesting video of what the future will hold. It’s great that they foresaw e-commerce, but too bad they still saw men as paying the bills for all the goods purchased online by their wives. Actually, would be kind of nice to have a sugar daddy pay all my internet purchases :-)

Anyone know how to post Youtube videos to make a thumbnail show up here? The “share” code just embeds the code into my text. There must be a way….

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There is not enough I can say or do to thank the wonderful friend who helped me set up this new blog. One of the coolest features he installed is a global translator. I know some of you are trying to read the blog, but that English isn’t the easiest language for you, so now you can scroll down, find the translator in the margin, and click on the flag of your country to read the blog in whatever language you prefer. I just LOVE this new feature. I’m sure, that just like with any translator, human or digital, there will be errors. I just hope they are amusing errors. Send me any especially interesting translations you may find so we can laugh about it together.

Classic Mustang, aging chassis

That was what I dreamed about last night, after we completed our escape from Lugansk.  The full body ache of carrying Matan, all 8.5 kg of him, from Lugansk all the way to Kiev was not something this old body is used to.  
I know Tamar warned me, again and again, but a stroller would just have been even more of a hindrance.  I can’t imagine climbing the slippery stairs from tarmac to plane and back down again with anything more than we already had with us.  DH took responsibility for Karen, and all hand baggage, and it was almost more than he could manage. 
It seemed almost like a military mission.  We got the passport, not before a final attempt to convince us it would take another week.  A call to our agency, and we got it same day. 

Goodbye Babyhome

 

Thursday afternoon we picked Matan up from the baby home.  The caretakers all gathered around to wish him goodbye.  I thought I saw a tear or two.  It was clear they were both happy for him, but sad to see him go.  They were happy to take a group shot. 

We spent one last night in Lugansk with him, and flew out of there at 6 am.  To my surprise, Matan managed to sleep, and we made it to the airport, even though our facilitators told us they were worried about us flying in “terrible weather”.  

We were pleasantly surprised by the fact that our 1 hour flight (instead of 16 hours by train), was on a decent sized jet and the flight was smooth as silk with clear skies and a good pilot and crew.  The view was fantastic, white fields as far as the eye could see and a beautiful sunrise. 

View from above - approach to Kiev

 

I think it was an Ebraer jet, and belonged to a small, Ukrainian charter company called Dnieproavia.  Great flight.  But this old body isn’t used to carrying 8.5 kilos for 5 hours – to the airport, thru security and and somewhat against his will while waiting to board.  He really wanted to walk around, but was so tired he was falling all over the place, and putting his mouth on everything, so in my arms it had to be.  

I wasn’t able to update or access Internet from the time we got Matan’s passport until just now.  Everything happened so fast, and we had to quickly pack up 4 pieces of luggage, get the kids, and ourselves a few hours of sleep before leaving.  

Sergey, our driver, met us at the airport and took us to the same apartment in Kiev that we spent or first week in.   Unfortunately, we only got the modem late last night, and it didn’t work.  Needless to say, I was in serious withdrawal, plus I knew family was waiting to hear from us via Skype, this blog, or email.  We had no way of communicating with anyone outside of Ukraine.  

Early this morning, our adoption family buddies, Tal and Sagit, called us, and with some encouragement from them, we managed to get the modem connected.  Bad wires mean we could lose it anytime, so I’m uploading this and will give more details shortly….if it’s still working.  I love you all and miss everyone so much.  We can’t wait to come home!  

Going to court!

We will appear in court on Wednesday.  It should be interesting since our team here hasn’t prepared us at all.  When we had court for Karen’s adoption, our translator told us not to worry at all.  She would translate all the judge’s questions, and regardless of what we answered, she would “translate” the answer correctly.  In other words, we could say what we wanted and it would have no impact whatsoever.

Here, our team hasn’t been nearly as communicative with us, but I’m still confident that things will go well.  They have already met with the judge.  These things are usually just a formality.  

After court, we have a 10 day waiting period and then receive the official verdict.  It should then take us a couple of days to get Matan a Ukrainian passport, a new birth certificate listing us as his legal parents, and then…..off to Kiev where we get a visa to Israel for him.  The visa is usually a same day procedure.  Now that we are nearing the end, well, almost, I’m almost sorry it’s going to be over.  It has been really great spending all this time as a family, just the three of us, no work, no gan (pre-school) no friends, and no TV.  Just this lonely laptop.  Which brings me to the next issue.  Three of us sharing 1 laptop is not optimum.  Karen is having a fit now because she wants to play one of her games.  My time is over.  Later.

Internet, so-so

Just an FYI to our friends and relatives, the Internet connection we are using is intermittent at best.  If you are trying to Skype us, and we appear offline, it means we have lost our connection.  Luckily, we have an Internet cafe downstairs, so I will be updating here, as usual.

We visited Matan today, and took some photos.  I’ll post more shortly.

Introducing, Matan!

Karen calls him Matani-Matoki.  Shhh, don’t anyone tell DH that I uploaded a photo.

A fun site

I love finding fun new toys to play with online. I’m tired of FB toys that make you register and can send all kinds of inane shit to your friends’ news feeds. Why can’t you play in private on FB?

I digress. FB is GREAT! But try to find other places to play. One site I’ve had a lot of fun with is this: http://diy.despair.com/motivator.php.